you deserve nice things, too. | victoria bc boudoir photography

My conversion rate for clients is slow. I know I’m a slow burn, plant the seeds and wait to sow, kind of marketer. I know that when you start thinking about doing a boudoir session, it might be years before you book.

There are a million-and-one blocks that we put in our way that stop us from having those experiences that our soul deeply craves. I know that it might take you years to realize that you don’t need to wait to lose 10 pounds. It might take you signing up for my newsletter and me planting tiny seeds of “you are worth this” for months before you start to believe them. But slowly, the blocks start to dissolve. Slowly, being subject to witnessing people reclaiming their power will start to dissolve your own blocks.

F*ck it, let’s just eliminate talking about boudoir exclusively for a second.

We get in our own way in so many aspects of life. Creating excuses and reasons why we don’t deserve those things that our soul is asking for. We put ourselves last, and everyone else first. We keep saying “next year” for 5 years, before maybe that thing that was on your to-do-list just disappears completely.

You only get one life-long, deeper-than-the-ocean love in your life. And it’s the person you’re sitting with right now. It’s you. So when are you going to let yourself have those experiences and dreams that your heart has been asking for? Maybe it’s dance lessons. Maybe it’s time to learn to paint, or play guitar. Maybe it’s booking a boudoir session with me or someone else to start exploring this side of yourself. Whatever your heart is asking for, it usually asks for a reason. Those requests aren’t meant to be ignored: your heart wants to be heard. You deserve the love you shower everyone else with. You deserve to date and romance yourself. You deserve nice things, too.